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9.18.2020

Dying Alone: A Harsh Reality of COVID-19 and How a Nurse Brought a Family Together One Last Time

Jennifer Shervinskie, RN, Medical Intensive Care Unit (MICU), recently let her heart lead the way when faced with a COVID-19 patient who would never again see his family. A colleague noticed the poise and instinct Jen had in caring for this patient and his family, even through the impossibly difficult decision of removing him from life support. The colleague nominated Jen for a DAISY Award, which she recently received in a socially-distanced ceremony on her unit. Read the full story below. 

“We are all trying to navigate new waters in this COVID era of care. I was asked to help with an unresponsive patient in our MICU on a ventilator with COVID-19. The patient's daughter and son were both immunocompromised so could not come to the hospital. Before having a heart-breaking family meeting with the team caring for him, I asked the nurse, Jen, to bring the family into the room virtually, as it so often helps them make better decisions in seeing the reality of their loved one's condition.

“Jen donned her PPE and carried the family in via iPad. She stood in the corner and prepared them for what they were going to see, then moved right to the patient's face, where they could express their love. She waited patiently until they had expressed their feelings, gratitude, and love, and then gave them a tour of the room.

“She explained all the equipment and concluded the tour with a view out the window, which overlooked Carter Mountain, and assured them that he was comfortable and cared for.

“It made all the difference in the family meeting to follow: They saw the harsh reality, and they were treated with such kindness and care, resulting in a sacred trust. The family decided to transition off of life support, and Jen was then charged to allow another visit to say their goodbyes.

“She organized a WebEx visit for five family members and included our chaplain who prayed with them all while Jen brought them to the bedside with the iPad. She asked the family how she might be their hands and presence in the room, and they asked her to hold his hand. Jen held this gentleman's hand while the ventilator was turned off, and he died shortly thereafter. 

“There was no script or precedent for this kind of care. Jen simply acted on instinct and authentic love and caring for her patient and the family. As a palliative care physician for many years, I have shared this space with a lot of families, but I've never been so humbled, so inspired, and so proud than I was standing outside the window, bearing witness to extraordinary care and compassion.”

Nomination edited for clarity.

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The Professional Nursing Staff Organization honors up to two UVA RNs each month with a DAISY Award. Nominations may be submitted by patients, patient families, visitors, and fellow UVA team members. Learn more at uvadaisy.com.

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